training of your children not only gives you the right, but also the responsibility, to train. As a school administrator, I observe that most parents do not understand the appropriateness and necessity of being in charge in their child’s life. Rather, parents take the role of adviser. Few are willing to say, for instance, “I have prepared oatmeal for your breakfast. It is a good, nutritious food and I want you to eat it. Maybe other mornings we will have something you like better.” Many are saying,